It is in the best interests of all parties to obtain experienced legal counsel to prepare a binding legal contract and to obtain a court order in all surrogacy arrangements.
Typically, the egg donor, surrogate and/or intended parents each have their own lawyers.
Your doctor will need a “clearance letter” from your lawyer to confirm that an agreement has been executed by all of the parties.
The purpose of a legal contract
Parentage under California law is governed in most cases by the intent of the parties. A written agreement is the clearest way to state the intention of the parties and address potential questions that may arise down the road such as:
- Who has the disposition rights to any unused frozen embryos?
- Are there any limitations on those disposition rights?
- What is the obligation of an egg donor if she learns of a genetic disease in her family 10 years after the baby’s birth?
- What if the egg donor or surrogate fails to follow your doctor's instructions for treatments or procedures?
- Intended parents are not considered the legal parents of the child.
- The hospital treats the surrogate as the legal parent of the child and all medical records reflect the surrogate as the legal parent.
- Intended parents are unable to obtain wrist bands from the hospital allowing them to visit with the newborn child.
- If the court order is not obtained in a timely fashion and the child is born premature and in the intensive care nursery, the intended parents are unable to visit the child.
- The child is not covered by the intended parents’ health insurance.
- The intended parents are not named as the parents on the birth certificate and they will have to adopt the child.
- If the child is born with health problems, the surrogate is the legal decision-maker instead of the intended parents.
- Your lawyer will draft and negotiate a contract to meet your individual needs and concerns. It will cover the specific obligations of each party and address issues that may arise in the future.
- Your lawyer will write a “clearance letter” to your doctor to confirm that an agreement has been properly executed by all of the parties.
Compared to the expenses of fertility care, these legal fees are a relatively minor expense. Most lawyers will charge a flat fee based on the services to be provided so you don’t have to worry that if your situation is more complicated or takes longer to negotiate that you will have to pay more than you budgeted.
Thanks to the contributions here by Tamara Daney, Attorney at Law, a surrogacy law specialist based in Oakland, CA; tel: 510-597-1145; email: This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it , and by Allison Amadia and Suzanne Pritchard of Amadia Pritchard, LLP, a law firm specializing in infertility law issues based in Santa Cruz, CA; www.infertilitylawyer.com; tel: 831-588-0755; email: This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it .)
